Coaching, Counseling, & Consulting for a

Breakthrough

Hi, I’m Ben!

Are you ready to overcome the stubborn obstacles that have kept you stuck and achieve what has always felt out of reach?

I will help you find life-changing results through weekly online group therapy. Confidential. Affordable.

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WHY TAYLOR LYMAN COACHING, COUNSELING, AND CONSULTING?

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Because sometimes it’s hard to find the way out of the dark on our own. It can feel impossible at times, but at Taylor Lyman we know it is possible.

We are eager to teach you the skills that will bring you success. Not just with your battle with pornography, but throughout your life.

We have seen hundreds of guys from teenagers and up overcome this addiction. We KNOW it’s possible. We KNOW you can do this too.

Because sometimes you need a group of guys who get it. Who are fighting the same fight. Guys who will cheer you on and be on your team.

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Because it’s not just about having the heart of a fighter. It’s about learning the techniques and skills that will take you to ultimate victory. Freedom.

Think about the most talented athletes in the world. They may have natural abilities, but that doesn’t take them very far if they aren’t willing to put in the effort and time it takes to become a champion.

Overcoming the plague of pornography is no different. It requires learning new ways to think about things, new skills, and new experiences to replace the old. It requires time, and effort.

Group Counseling Pricing

All Life Groups are $240 monthly.

You can attend as many meetings weekly as you’d like.

When first starting with Taylor Lyman there is a one-time intake fee of $150, which includes a one-hour intake session and two books.

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Are You Struggling to Breakthrough?

Are you stuck in a rut? An addiction? A job or career? I can help with that!
Are you interested in a safe space for vulnerability and have a desire to improve your life?
Do you need renewed accountability?

Have you been taking half-measures and are you ready to go full-throttle?
Are you ready for a shift in your own paradigms?
Are you looking for Christian faith based help?
If you answered ‘YES’ to any of these questions, you have come to the right place!

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FAQ's

Taylor Lyman Coaching, Porn Addiction Counseling & Consulting

Where can a sex addiction therapist be located?

There are many places where you can find sex and . You can consult your local psychologist and get a referral or if you’re not comfortable with that, there are online websites that cater to your needs. Taylor Lyman has various counseling services that may suit your needs. From group counseling () to a more focused , Ben smith, who is a renowned , can help guide you through whatever weighs heavily on you.

What is the treatment for porn addiction?

Human is a complicated thing. For don’t or can’t express themselves in normal ways that a normal average person can, this can make harder. The most common for pornography addiction is CBT or Cognitive therapy. Pornography and usually revolve around their feeling of , denial, loneliness, fear of intimacy, and sometimes social anxiety. It’s goal is to shine on issues that normally get buried deep down, whether they be or otherwise. The Aim of CBT is to shine a light on the patients beliefs and show them to be irrational or detrimental to the patients . Ultimately the outcome of relies solely on what the clients goals are. Some want in order to stop watching porn entirely. Others just want to watch less porn and make sure it has no negative impact on their lives.

How can you tell if a therapist is right for me?

The most important thing is to talk to the counselor. It’s not wrong to vet the before getting . Make sure you are comfortable talking to them. Most highly trained therapists can change their approach on a patient to patient basis. A good will help you with respect and without judgment. If you feel that your is biased or unable to respect you then he or she may not be the right for you.

How do counselors know when addiction is present?

There are many tests that can help a diagnose whether a person is . It usually starts out with you filling out a standardized questionnaire – this usually asks about your history, family history (how has this affected your current or ), health history and patterns of (i.e. and other ). The aim is to ascertain to what extent the perceived addiction has affected the patients life. There are certain red flags that show that may be made visible by the tests. The next would be a face to face evaluation by the . This will ensure that the clinician will reach the right diagnosis and prescribe the correct for your sex addiction.

What is online sex addiction counseling and how does it work?

E-counselling has been shown to be simpler and much more affordable for most people. Some rely on chat programs to conduct the counseling session. However, most go for the more traditional for of e-therapy which requires video conferencing platforms such as skype or other similar programs. This affords you the flexibility of choosing which platform to use for your counseling sessions. you can use your computer or you can use your smartphone – whatever is convenient for you is the most important thing. Your is the most important thing in all this.

What are some signs that i should seek mental health care?

There is a simple evaluation you can do yourself that can help you decide whether or not you should seek help

Has pornography negatively affected your personal relationships, your job, or your finances?

Do you feel guilty or ashamed after looking at pornography?

Do you look at pornography when you are bored, anxious, or lonely?

Have you been viewing violent pornography, child pornography, or other more deviant forms of porn?

Do you spend more time viewing porn or use it more often than you had planned?

Do you suffer from or have had a traumatic event happen to you?

Have you ever had issues?

if the answers to the questions above are yes, then you may need to schedule a consultation with your local see a and in order to receive .

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What Makes Taylor Lyman So Different?

"Ben is a person that can help people from different ages with their addictions. I have participated in his group meetings, I have learned from him and I have grown and change on different aspects. 100% Recommended. Ben is bilingual, he speaks Spanish."

-Jose

"Ben is a phenomenal mentor and clinician! He doesn’t sugarcoat but neither is he excessively harsh. He teaches clearly and understandingly. Was also very effective in helping us members of the group bond and connect with each other. I will be eternally grateful for my experience in his group!"

-Michael

"Awesome! It'll change your life!!"

-Ammon

"Ben "el matador" Smith. What a beast. Seriously, he has done so much to help with my recovery. He's super encouraging and entertaining to work with, but he also helps you get the skills you need to win in life and achieve great things. 100% recommend."

"Ben has a great manner about him. He has the ability to say the right thing at the right time. He has the experience necessary to guide those seeking help. I have learned and benefitted a good deal from my time with him. I absolutely recommend his services."

-Aaron

"Aint nobody out there like him!"

-Andrew

"Without a doubt the best mentor and counselor for me and my struggles. His real life approach and priority to use Christ’s influence has touched me to change my focus which has allowed me to recognize the importance of connecting with God, my wife and family, and all that I come in contact with."

-Todd

"Ben is so awesome! He has been such a great help to me in overcoming my struggles. He is very empathetic and really listens to your concerns. I would recommend him to anyone seeking help. He knows what he's doing and will give you the tools to help you succeed."

-Marcus

"These services have been life altering! I am a better man, I am happier, I feel better about life as a whole. I would recommend this to anyone and everyone! If you are struggling and want real help this is unlike any other program out there this is the program that works. Invest in your healing! It is worth it!"

-Brigham

"Ben is great guy and takes the time to be personal with each individual!"

-Trevor

"Ben is a fantastic guy! I have been working with him for nearly 3 months and my life has drastically changed for the better!"

-Ken

"Ben has “ben” (ha ha) a great counselor for me in leading our group! I have gained more knowledge, power and skills due to being affiliated with Ben. He rocks!!! Love the guy!!! I would refer anyone I know who is struggling to Ben for help. He has the abilities and skills to help!"

"This man is soooo real but not haughty at all. He has changed my life completely through encouragement and empathy with a healthy dose of straight talk where needed. I had issues that went on for over 30 years and he helped me to overcome them. Without any reservation or hesitation, I give him the highest commendation and recommend him to everyone."

Christopher

"Ben is an expert and has a gift for understanding, relating, supporting, and teaching. I was able to trust him when I couldn’t trust in myself. If you have an opportunity to work with Ben you will be grateful."

-Seth

"Ben is an amazing, loving, generous man who freely gives of his time and efforts even outside of normal services. He gives some tough love, but is still a great man with an incredibly big heart - not to mention an expert in his field. I highly recommend him."

-Joseph

"Ben is great. I have been working with him for a little bit now and is one of my favorite people to be around. I would totally recommend his services to anyone. 5 starts."

-Morgan

"I find myself being stumped by genuine concerns share by others in our confidencial group. But Ben finds a way to address such concerns in a special, different, and unique way that I would not have thought of. I am a recovering addict. He has training. He is familiar with all of this addiction recovery. He knows when to be stern and strong, but also when to lay back and be more passive. The only room for failure is in us. Ben actually gives 100% for this."

"Humor and compassion - that’s Ben in a nutshell. His insights have helped become a much improved person."

"Awesome therapist. Amazing insight into how to treat addiction!"

-Larry

"Ben has a unique ability to blend therapy, wisdom and humor in a way that makes him incredibly personal and effective. I would highly recommend Ben to anyone. He is one of the best counselors I have ever worked with."

-Justin

"Ben is a passionate clinician who loves his clients. Working with him has helped stabilize my recovery. I appreciate his knowledge base and experience that he uses to help our group!"

-Michael

"Taylor Lyman led by Ben Smith has been a true godsend in my life. From my initial one-on-one intake session to participation in his weekly men’s group Ben consistently shows he knows how to utilize both his spiritual and clinical tools to bring out the best in me and the others in the group. Ben’s group sessions, accountability tools, and the principles he discusses have reversed decades of addiction and set me back on a path of freedom and true happiness. Ben is a life-changer and given the opportunity I know he change your life too."

- Mike

"Ben's style of coaching worked extremely well for me and I'm grateful for the changes that have occurred in my life as a result of his guidance."

- Kevin

"My wife and I worked with Ben. It was great; very worth while. Ben and my wife clicked which was key for our success. Ben is very easy to talk to, honest, straight forward, quick to understand and identify the root of issues. Ben is very capable of understanding a woman’s perspective and translating that information over to the knuckle headed husband, a.k.a., me. He will challenge and expect hard things from you, which will ultimately bring the needed growth and success. Ben was an instrument in the hand of the Lord that helped me save and improve my life, marriage, and family.Thank you"

- Jacob

"Ben has helped me gain the skills I've been needing for years to overcome my addiction. I have finally gained the self mastery I've been wanting but could never attain on my own. These are skills I've starting using in all aspects of my life. Ben has a genuine interest in me as an individual and has always had my best interest in mind. Thanks Ben!"

-Kevin

"Ben does an amazing job at lifting us to become better men."

-Mason

"Ben has been a great help to me and my wife and appreciate his knowledge and understanding."

-Luke

"After 30+ years of struggles, I got the big guns involved. Yes, that's right, I went to counseling with Ben. When weekly meetings, good intentions and all the faith I could muster weren't enough, I got a professional counselor who actually stretches me to do what I have never done before. Some counselors just listen, others make suggestions but Ben challenges me to change my paradigms. I choose Ben because he helps me get results.You can't and shouldn't try to beat addiction alone anymore. If you want to change then add Ben to your support team. You'll be pleased with the warrior brotherhood that comes with that. We have your back.Recovery does not come to those who need it. It comes to those who want it enough to do something different than what they have always done.One final thought to help you on your journey, doing more to become Christlike is never going to work. Put Christ at the center of your recovery, and He will make more out of you than you ever thought possible."

-Scott W

"If you are looking for someone to address places where you may be weak or vulnerable, identify effective strategies for improvement, and help you drive towards long term success in reaching your goals, Ben is your man."

-Denis

"I love Ben's happy upbeat playful personality. He provides encouragement, thoughtful discussion and a sense of caring about you as an individual rather than a sense that your just a client. All while not crossing the lines of professionalism. I would recommend him."

-Steven